What I look for in a friend

As you can see from th title, I'll b blogging about th things that I look for in a friend but even if you do not have any of th qualities or whatever it is, nothing can change th fact that you're my friend :)

-Trust. This is th most important factor. Without mutual trust, anything and everything just can't work out. Think about it, isn't it tiring to guard against everybody for you don't know whether th words they say are lies or what. When there's trust, there'll b no suspicion in this world and therefore, we can live in harmony instead of doubting one another. I trust everybody, in fact I really do. However, it's just a trust to a certain point. Th one whom I would speak my mind and whatever I have in my heart to is my bff. Well other than that, I don't really confide to others unless for special reasons.

-Understanding. Having a friend who understand your difficulties in a circumstances is really a must for me.
For eg: for some reason or I can't get my parents' permission to go/do something and they start to whine/grumble or even complain instead of saying "it's ok, I understand" or at least something like "some other time then." If they can't b a bit understanding in my situation, then I see no point in th friendship because eventually, it'll leads to quarrels/arguments/conflicts only.

-Sense of secure. Yeah this is one of th important factors too. I don't know since when I started to feel so insecure with everything and everyone around me. When I don't feel secure being together with someone, yknow I'll not rely on th person too much as I'm afraid that he/she would leave me someday. So by th time comes, at least I won't feel so helpless and lost. For eg: At times when I couldn't contact somebody, I tend to look at my phone every few minutes, checking for th person's message/call. Fearing that th person would not turn up etc.

-Humorous. I think I've met alot who are of this quality and I'm so glad to know them. Just by their face(joker face) and jokes could simply make my bad day to a good one. Or still, start my day off with a wide smile on my face! Luv to hang out with friends who loves to joke and fool around instead of those who is always so serious and can't take any jokes! In this way, by laughing can make me feel more relax and forget my worries for awhile!

Well, I guess th above are th ones which I really mind alot. It'll b a double bonus if I've a friend who has th same music interest as me and loves to go gaga over celebrities ^^ it'll b great if we could go to ktv and sing all th songs that we both know and go for every mediacorp roadshows and get high together! Also, I rather have a friend who tells me th ugly truth instead of pretty lies in my face. I also appreciate people who puts in effort to make my day! B it just a small lil note or remembering every of my lil details, it actually shows how much you care! Thank you! Not to forget, those who never once give up on me when my life turns into a big mess and things aren't going smoothly for me, thanks for believing in me and always staying by my sides. I'm really thankful to have you guys and you're th type of friends one could ever ask for <3